Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. When something happens you have three choices you can either let it define you. Let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.  Sometimes all you can do is smile. Move on with your day, hold back the tears and pretend you’re okay. It’s all in your mine whatever you hold in your mind will tend to occur in your life. If you continue to believe as you have always believed, You will continue to act as you have always acted. If you continue to act as you always acted, You will continue to get what you have always gotten. If you want different results in your life or your work, All you have to do is change your mind…