Not to always say “Yes” all the time, I have learned over the years always saying yes to everything is not always the answer it’s okay to say I can’t right now but never just no. My grandkids expect me though to always say yes especially when there Mother has no problem saying no lol, I love me some them that never go’s without saying remember it’s not to say no but not just not right now but never to the grandkids…🤩😀🤩😀